I just realized that each little thing that we do in our everyday life is a constant pattern of what we learned in our childhood. Nothing new to how we approach our facts everyday, until we realized them and decide to create a new pattern to follow.
For example, I've always wanted people to talk to me about anything, to communicate with me on things, I love discussions. and one day I realized that it's the one thing I desired the most upon growing up.
Unfortunately, not many people realized it, or want to change it for the better. Well, people are reluctant to change, it's natural. But this is what differentiate a wise from a lazy, a successful person from a mediocre.
taken from my ultimate cousin's FB notes. thank you so much, Tika :)